To me personally, this is the most physically beautiful woman on the planet. God simply didn’t skimp on anything, coupled by the fact that she doesn’t seem to age. In my opinion she is the complete physical package: face, boobs, butt, hips, legs, I bet even her feet would bring a man to tears. Having given my praise for the creator’s work, I think men recognize that most women simply cannot measure up to Ms. Berry and we’re OK with it. Most of us are not looking for a size 2 that drinks from the fountain of youth whose beauty would make ancient nations go to war. But the average girl can find a little piece of Halle Berry style, and add it to her own.

What makes her special is that she seems to act like a regular girl. I’ve never met her, yet I feel as though I know her. She has a small town quality and humbleness about her that is admirable even though she is a Hollywood A-lister and makes millions a film. It seems just as likely that you would find her in Wal-Mart looking for a bargain as you would walking a red carpet. Tip 1: Men love a woman that is approachable and not aloof. Whether you have drop dead looks or not, try not to erect invisible walls around yourself. Unless you’re having one of those days where approaching you could be considered endangering the public.

Halle seems as though she can walk right by a mirror and not look. It’s not that she doesn’t care about her appearance, she just doesn’t act like one of the world’s most beautiful women. With some women, you can’t get past their looks because there’s no character or intellectual depth to provide balance. Kim Kardashian and Paris Hilton come to mind.  Tip2 : Let your inner beauty and character outshine whatever is on the outside.

Certain women simply have a magnetism or light about them. You can spot them a mile away in a restaurant. They’re perpetually smiling, laughing, interacting with their friends, they’re even friendly to guys that are not even close to being in their league.  They’re funny, they can laugh at themselves, they have a brain, and an opinion.  They have a ton of friends and professional contacts. Most importantly, everyone, including other women, wants to be around her. That’s Halle. Tip 3: Try and be that girl as best you can. I think charisma is something you’re born with, but trying doesn’t hurt.

Halle is no shrinking violet of a woman. This is a tough chick.  She had a rough, abusive childhood and dealt with all the stuff that comes from being bi-racial. She’s a little girl from a small town that made it big despite her circumstances. Entertainment is probably the hardest profession in which to make it big. Most folks never get beyond doing a little community theater work. To make it to the top of an impossible industry and receive its highest award, the Academy Award, takes a little luck and a lot of character and determination. Tip 4: Get tough and make something of yourself regardless of your circumstances. Show folks what you’re really made of. Stick to it and surprise yourself. Halle Berry had help and you will need it to. Look for allies.

You might be able to call this one the anti-tip. For all Halle’s beauty, character, charisma, and toughness, she makes awful choices in men. Each guy seemed to be a cookie cutter pretty boy just like the last. I can’t speak about her current guy and father of her child, but hopefully he’s better than her previous dudes. Many intelligent women fall into this trap, and I’ll never understand it. Tip 5: Look for a man that mirrors your inner character and depth, not your own or someone else’s outer beauty. How a deep ocean of a woman can settle for being with a shallow pond of a man, I’ll never understand.